Kurang itu lebih (Less is more)

Is it normal to feel happy when i read one of my Fav blogger proposed by her BF??hahaha..Happy for others is fine isnt it? =D

I'm triggered to write this entry after read what Alya, the blogger,wrote in her blog.Its about how engagement can be skipped because what is important is two families meet and discuss.I absolutely agree with her! but we did have engagement ceremony the other day.hehe...

I'm actually jealous with friends who had a simple n nice wedding...i want one but its hard to say i can have one. Being the only daughter in the family, the first granddaughter that getting married among the grandchildrens and growing up in the community that rich with culture, its a bit hard to ignore the custom.Malam berinai,majlis khatam Al-Quran,Bersanding,pusing pusar naga,langkah bendul, and the list goes on..

Despite all that, alhamdulillah i have parent who kinda want a simple wedding too...well actually, its more like DIY wedding..LOL.we didnt cater, we make our own wedding dais,we tailor our own wedding dress..except my sanding dress la..so we saved some budget here.

Define simple.For me simple is no food,time and money wasted on unnecessary thing like invitation card,expensive entertainment,dress,doorgift but doesnt mean we have to cancel it..actually i want to look alternative choices for all dat.. Simple is also mean i want to focus on the wedding..the ambiance get together..the guests..not only the pelamin,the pengantin..its not worth it to spend too much on that kinda thing tapi the guests pulang tak puas hati..tak rasa dilayan.Its not nice la kan..Kalau boleh, i want to meet semua orang yang datang hari tu.mampu ka??huuu..

I think im about to cancel Bisaya  Traditional wedding dress.I know this wedding gonna be once in a lifetime but im a strict person when it comes about financial.(ke kedekut..lol) I have plan to travel a.k.a hantu jalan, so just by imagining myself in Jogja rite now give me the confidence to decide,ya..no traditional dress.Lupa asal usul?? I love my traditional food, i understand my own language.bla.bla.bla. whom im gonna impressed anyway..as long as i know myself.my ancestor. =)

Less is more.Agree?or agree to disagree?

Jarak Jauh

Percaya tak kalau saya bagitau dalam 8 tahun berkawan ni...kami hanya penah berjumpa berapa kali saja..boleh dibilang dengan jari tangan+jari kaki...apatah lagi dah setahun bertunang ni...langsung tak jumpa...jimat tak kami??..hahaha..tak da kuar makan..takda tengok wayang..takda nak minta baju itu,,perfume ini...nak kasut itu..nak tudung inii...(tapiiiiii nanti dah kawen,bersiap sedia la awak ya!!...bwahahahaha..gelak kejam)..

Yer, kami bercinta jarak jauh....memang asyik jauh ja la citernye..dulu masa study di semenanjung..sorang duk utaqa..sorang duk selatan.Bila dah nak makin dekat...dijauhkan pula....tambah2 lagi sejak saya dah balik bekerja di tempat sendiri...sorang di Malaysia Timur...sorang lagi di Malaysia Barat...kadang-kadang terasa macam,adoiii..bosannya..jeles tengok orang....kelip2 mata ja la cik Neesa..dia takkan muncul depan saya pun...tapii orang kata ada hikmahnya...mungkin dengan cara kami berjauhan ni la hubungan kami terjaga..kalau duk dekat2 selalu ada ja peelnya.

Memang setia dan sabar la kuncinya..tidak lupa juga berserah kepada Allah SWT..kalau kami ada jodoh,maka didekatkan...dan walaupun belum lagi si dia melafazkan akad nikah...saya tetap bersyukur kami semakin menghampiri ke arah itu...bila pasang Countdown Sticker dalam blog ni..rasa makin berdebar-debar pulak!oussshhhhh!!hahaha...

Gaduh,putus sambung balik putus lagi sambung balik,ugut mengugut,merajuk,marah-marah semua tu kami pernah rasa...ye la..bercinta sejak umur 18 tahun..bercinta ala2 remaja,ala2 budak,ala2 dewasa..semua dah rasa...alhamdulillah sama2 mematangkan diri..walaupun sorang masih gedik nak update2 blog..siap blogwalking main follow2 lagi..hahahaa..yang sorang tu hantu game PS3! tapi kebudak-budakan yang comel kan..takpa la..kami saling menerima dan memaafkan..hahaha..

Perasaan gembira ni harus ditulis..bukan rasa marah+geram ja kan?..leh jadi kenang-kenangan kononnya =P

Walau jauh..tapi sentiasa dekat...untung ada DIGI free call buddies! Sempat promote gitu...ye la..gila kau dia pernah kena bill RM500 gara2 gayut ja...rm500 banyak tuuu...leh beli tiket flight gi Jogja..kan2??...tapi tu la sekarang ni guna free call ja..jimat...ini la namanya family planning!owh..merepeks...baik saya stop dulu...

assalamualaikum & salam sejahtera! =D

Teaser I

Another DIY project on the way~ =) will share the result A.S.A.P

Is he your Mr Right?

Pause kejap pasal wedding....i dont know..today my mood keep changing...n now i feel want to write something about us....

3months 3weeks and 4 days before our wedding...my cousin asked me,didnt u feel anything?excited or something? Its still early to feel that way, I answered."But in 3months,anything can happen.."she said.I just remain silent but think.She got a point.

But thats not the thing i want to share..lets answer the question above..."Is he your Mr Right?" or maybe the next question is really matter..."How would u know he is the one??"

With him, i can be me.there is no such thing like hold back..everything must be expressed!lol...and the best thing is he accept me the way i am..im jerk sometimes..act like kid...pull a face..raise my voice..fight over small things..im quite sensitive actually...I,myself cant even understand me n figure out what i want...it must been hard to handle me huh....i can imagine if i did that with others..definitely i will get a punch in a face or worse..get dumped.lol.

I guess the answer for how would i know he is the one?...he can HANDLE me and have PATIENCE despite all hard times we had.

=)

Tutorial DIY Pompander/Bunga guna Crepe paper

Tadaaaaa!!MY very 1st DIY.To cut the story short, here are the steps on how to make the Pompander using Crepe paper instead of Tissue paper.I replace it with crepe paper coz its hard to find tissue paper in here(I mean tissue paper that used to make the pompander of course)

Ok, so before we start, here are the things that we need:

Crepe paper(any colour u want-it only cost u 50cent each),Scissor,Rubber band

My assistant~ =)

 Step 1:

Lay the crepe paper

 Step 2:

Fold the crepe paper,divide it into 8 pieces of square.

 Step 3:

Cut it according to the folded size.You will have 8 squares.

Step 4:

Stack up all the squares and fold in and out repeatedly as if u r making paper fan.

 Step 5:

This is the result from step 4 and use rubber band and tie it in the middle of the paper,make sure it divides the paper evenly.

Step 6: 

Cut both end of the paper, make a loop shape.

 Step 7:

Stretch it.

 Step 8:

Pull outward the paper and try make it fluffy as u want.

 The result!

Must try!It is so easy!

U can use it to decorate anything!Wedding dais,party,room!anywhere!

Till then,see u next DIY!

Kerawang itu~

Bakal pengantin wajib beli magazines pengantin untuk dapat aura nak jadi bride+cilok idea2 yang berlambak-lambak dalam mag+ (yerp, ada lagi...) usha-usha promosi dan vendor-vendor yang offer service tahap terbaek.

Nak dijadikan cerita, saya dah decide nak DIY pelamin..dah pilih pun contoh pelamin...dalam contoh tu, pelamin tu ada Kerawang penghias panel.Kerawang is one of focal point dalam pelamin tu...so,mau tak mau...kena usaha cari la juga.Tengah berdikusi dengan parents(this is very important, nak DIY kena ada supporter, baru jadik n bersemangat)..sambil belek-belek mag pesona pengantin..tup2,jumpa vendor yang offer jual kerawang tu di KK!!YUP!!KK!!susah gila nak cari barang-barang wedding yang cantik+murah+banyak pilihan di KK ni...kebanyakkannya di semenanjung..so apa lagi!terus serbu...

Entrance! sampai-sampai ja kami disambut dengan gerbang cantik ni..rupa-rupanya bukan kedai..tapi kilang..patutla locationnya di kawasan industri..

nice kan??teruja!!

ruang pamer...contoh-contoh pelamin.... =)

waweeeeeeeee~

ni bunga la..apa lagiii...hurrrmm...haha

yang ni mini gerbang....nice~

ni la kerawang yang saya maksudkan tu.....affordable price =)

pilih..pilih...pilih.....murah ja...tak sampai rm50 each rasanya...

frame besaaar....

model kerawang!my cuzzie!

the end...hahaha

yang lawaknya...owner dia ni balik-balik tanya,kami dari butik mana....huahuahua...kami butik sendirian berhad ja..actually, kami plan selepas wedding nanti..barang-barang tu kami nak tumpangkan barang-barang ni dengan makcik..dia ada buat pakej pelamin...so boleh la jadi income sket di masa akan datang...

Location:

Ezi Wedding 

Taman Warisan Indah

Lorong 2

Industri, Inanam,

Kota Kinabalu.

Cadangan Design Pelamin untuk projek DIY

Sebelum saya membentangkan cadangan..chewah!...ni nak cerita sikit...almaklumlah...kalau kahwin ni xda pelamin macam tak sah...biar simple pun,asal ada pelamin...

Diikutkan mula-mula memang plan nak buat pelamin sendiri.tapi bila memikirkan yang kos buat sendiri ni kadang-kadang over budget juga...beli bunga-bunga tu dah berapa kosnya, lepas kahwin nanti bunga tu nak letak mana.Jadi tukar lagi, saya nak sewa ja lagi senang, tak payah pening-pening nak fikir.

Bila dah kata nak sewa tu, saya p la survey with my aunt...tanya-tanya harga, semuanya leih kurang 1k++ juga harganya disebabkan kos pengangkutan ke rumah saya tu dah kena tambah lagi rm250..hurm...so, saya pause kejap pasal pelamin...

Sekali tiba-tiba tengah menggoogle gambar pelamin (ni memang hobi saya sejak nak kawen)...ternampak satu pelamin cantik menawan hatiiiiiii(nanti saya reveal) so bila teliti betul-betul gambar tu, rasa macam leh buat ni.Tambah-tambah lagi my bapa ni memang DIY-person...kalau boleh,semua dia nak buat sendiri..huhu.So,*petik jari! Saya nekad nak buat pelamin sendiri~Its risky tapi kena yakin!ok,enough writing...sekarang nak post gambar-gambar pelamin yang saya rasa sesuai untuk DIY.

Dan tadaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!inilah pelamin yang saya telah pilih untuk di DIY kan..huhu....akan update nanti!Btw,dah beli kain+kerawang2 tu.

Jumpa lagi di post akan datang!